Practical answer
A trusted helper may know the patient well, but familiarity does not make a clinical task ordinary housework. For every non-household task, record who authorised it, training and the right skills and experience evidence, limits, supplies, documentation, supervision and what change requires stopping.
This guide may be useful for
- Households employing domestic helpers
- Families sharing care with household staff
- Nurses teaching selected routine support
Classify the task by judgment, not by how often it occurs
Cleaning the room, preparing ordinary meals and helping retrieve items are different from interpreting symptoms, deciding medicine timing, assessing a wound or changing a clinical device. A repeated task may still require professional judgment.
Break vague instructions such as “manage the tube” into preparation, positioning, prescribed administration, observation, cleaning, documentation and escalation. Assign each element separately rather than transferring an entire clinical process.
- Household support
- Personal assistance
- Clinical judgment
- Task broken into elements
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Make teaching measurable and voluntary
For any permitted personal support, document who taught it, the exact patient-specific method, demonstration and return-demonstration, limits and review date. Watching a nurse once is not the right skills and experience evidence.
Speak to the worker without employment pressure and confirm they understand they may stop when the situation differs. Language, literacy, physical ability and safe lifting capacity matter; a signature alone does not prove readiness.
- Named trainer
- Return-demonstration
- Voluntary acceptance
- Individual ability checked
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Keep stop rules and clinical backup visible
Write the findings that require no action, a routine report, stopping the task or urgent help. Provide one reachable clinical contact and a safe plan when that contact is unavailable.
Review after hospitalisation, new orders, device change, error, near miss or staff turnover. The nurse should reassess the patient and the task; the household should not quietly expand duties because the helper has become familiar.
- Four response levels
- Reachable clinical contact
- Review triggers
- No silent role expansion
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Primary sources
These sources support the general principles on this page. The individual treating team’s instructions take priority.
- World Health Organization: Integrated people-centred health servicesInternational · health-service guidance
- World Health Organization: Patient safetyInternational or source jurisdiction; general principles only · authoritative public guidance
- World Health Organization: Quality of careInternational or source jurisdiction; general principles only · authoritative public guidance
Sources checked: 2026-08-02
What to consider before arranging a visit
Support that may be relevant
- Every task is classified
- Competence is task-specific
- Employment pressure is excluded
- Stop rules are explicit
- Clinical backup remains available
What to prepare and confirm
- Which role owns each task
- What training is required
- What the helper may refuse
- Which changes require stopping
- Who provides clinical backup
Ask about household staff and nursing-task boundaries
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Ask about household staff and nursing-task boundariesQuestions families ask
Can a helper give prescribed medicine?
Do not assume so. The responsible clinical provider must determine whether the specific task may be delegated or supported, what authorisation and the right skills and experience are required, and what limits apply. Medicine decisions and clinical assessment remain outside ordinary housework.
What should happen when the helper is unsure?
They should stop at the agreed safe point, protect the patient, preserve the medicine or device state where appropriate and contact the named clinical backup. Uncertainty should be reported, not punished.